Ok. That's a half lie. I do sometimes use it to vent, bitch, or complain about something going on in life...or on the occassion to make a not so subtle point. I'm good at that. Or so I like to think.
| Really is it necessary to get on everyday and talk about your drama and all your personal dirty laundry.
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Before I really dive into this I should fess up, I'm not perfect. I know SHOCKER! And I have my bad days and I have my days when I'm on the edge of sanity and there seems to be no way to turn back. I have my days when I whine and complain about inconsequential things, and some days about huge things that matter. But at the end of that day I go to sleep knowing I WILL change it tomorrow, or be doing my best to change it. I will NOT sit down the next day and complain about it all over again.
There are some things I really can't stand about Facebook and I wish I didn't have to start deleting and blocking people but that's how it's going to be. I've already started cutting people out of my chi in real life so I have to do it here as well. I need less drama, less anger, less retardedness!!! If this means I'm isolated from 90% of the people I know than so be it. I want to be happy and positive, for the most part, and I can't do this surrounded by all this craziness and drama. I NEED to be healthly and positive for LittleGirl and LittleBoy, I can't be caught up and sucking in all this negative energy.
With that said: I hate when people whine about life and how unfair it is and "why does this keep happening to me?"!!! Hello jackass, it keeps happening because you let it! EVERY ONE has a choice in life, I don't believe in laid out plans that don't change regardless of what you do, you and only you control your destiny. What happnes the next day and the next and the next is YOUR CHOICE! Stop sitting there whining about it and get up and do something. (Obviously this doesn't apply to those who are legitimately doing something and just need a vent or two, so unbunch your panties). This is for those who complain about the same thing everyday and do nothing to fix it. So get up and make a choice, you can either sit there cry and say why me and do nothing and keep seeing the same results, or you can get off your ass and do what you need to fix it. The choice is yours. If you are doing something and keep seeing the same things than you're doing something wrong, or you're life really is a circle of shit and i'm sorry!
I can't stand when people do the whole "copy & paste" status updates. I'm sorry but I just don't like them. I get you wanna spread some message and you think it's really a great way to do it. But truth is it's stupid. If you really wanna say something and wanna make a statement, than USE YOUR WORDS! If you're trying to honor someone by doing a copy & paste, don't, do them a real honor and speak from your heart. For this one thing I do feel bad if I offend you, but I'm a believer in the power of words and feel strongly about using your own. (I don't mind an occasion status share) I'm talking about the ones that say copy & paste if you agree. Really!? Because if I agree then I'd have already said it, or I will find my own way to say it.
Leave the dirty personal business/laundry where it belongs, at your home. The business with your baby's momma/dadda, or wife, or lover and what shannigans they are pulling is YOUR business and should stay that way. Bashing them on facebook thinking you are "strong" or "cool" makes you look like the real jackass, especially when 90% of the time they can't even see it because they aren't on your friends list, or are blocked. Why do you want the whole world reading about your drama and what bullshit you are doing or putting up with?
Raving about how much you drank or how hungover you are the next day...is NOT cool. Most of you are in your late 20s early 30s...unless you're on Jersey Shore being paid (still not cool) to be a loser going to the clubs, picking up guys/girls, partying all night, taking shots repeatedly, it's nothing to brag about and shouldn't be done. Creepers. Going out constantly and not being home with your kids is also not respectable, just saying. (I believe we all need time out and away but get a grip!)
If you say you're done with a certain place and/or scene than be done, don't post a month later how you were there and it's still drama! Hello, duh, things don't change when it's the same people still there. What did you expect?
I have a lot of respect for stay at home PARENTS, I do... truly. It's hard work. However I do NOT appreciate hearing how tired you are, and how sad it is b/c you get to spend the whole day with your kids and maybe running errands, or having to clean. SERIOUSLY THE WHOLE DAY! Try squeezing that all into 1-2 hours than tell me how it feels. And really poor you, you get to watch your kids every day grow and learn. Through the week, I see LittleGirl for 30min each morning, God willing we aren't both tired and screaming, and that's it, because most nights by the time I get home from work she's sleeping. Don't get me wrong I like working and having that time out, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't love having more time and energy with/for the kids. So I try not to complain about it, even though it's a more legitimate complaint than when you get to see them ALL FLIPPIN' day!
And PLEASE for all that's holy, stop getting on facebook everyday saying "i'm tired, blah blah blah, I see a nap in my future" "I'm going to take a nap!' SHUT YOUR FACE! A nap, you get to take a nap and you wanna tell me you're tired, shut up for reals. I'm sorry you're tired and have to run errands. That you could've done yesterday or tomorrow or the next day b/c you are HOME everyday. God forbid! (I especially hate this if you have no kids, or if it's due to the aforementioned partying)
Ok, that's enough I don't want to sit here all day and complain. Then I'd be doing exactly what I'm bitching about :)
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